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Edgard reflects on navigating pushy people and nosy questions that demand emotional vulnerability on command. Drawing from personal experiences of trauma being weaponized against them, they emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and selectively sharing one's story. Being open isn't a 24/7 obligation, and guardedness can be a survival skill. Edgard explores the nuances of boundary-setting, particularly for queer individuals constantly assessing safety in interactions. Practical tips are offered for maintaining boundaries with empathy while protecting one's emotional wellbeing.
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sorry, my trauma's not on the menu →
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Edgard Portela
Summary
Edgard reflects on navigating pushy people and nosy questions that demand emotional vulnerability on command. Drawing from personal experiences of trauma being weaponized against them, they emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and selectively sharing one's story. Being open isn't a 24/7 obligation, and guardedness can be a survival skill. Edgard explores the nuances of boundary-setting, particularly for queer individuals constantly assessing safety in interactions. Practical tips are offered for maintaining boundaries with empathy while protecting one's emotional wellbeing.
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